THE FACTORS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

           

Every household must have had problems. We often hear about domestic violence too. Between husband and wife or parents and children. However, what makes domestic violence happened in the household ? Is it no more compassion within the family ? There are several factors that cause the occurrance of domestic violence : 
   Theology Factors
These factors is related to the relationship between man and God. Religion or beliefs differences of married couple and they're not mutually understands each other, there is no tolerance in it, then it would appear the disharmony between them. The possibility of any acts of violence, will appear as a result of mutual confidence to impose respectively. Family whose away from God is also cause of domestic violence. When religion teachings are demanding to care each other, dedicated, patient, respect each other and help each other aspecially in the family ignored and not implemented packed violence appears, disobedience to parents, parents hitting the children, etc.
    Psychological Factors
A wife who feels distressed by her husband's action were very limiting activities of his wife, forcing his wife to obey his wishes or otherwise of all or parents to impose his wishes to his on. When the mounting pressure and demanded will give rise to irregularities and acts of violence. For instance, wife who cut her husband's genital because her husband was strickler for getting married again, son kill his parents because they forbid him to buy a motorcycle, or parents kill his son because he has drawbacks. All the above acts os violence is also highly related to and influenced by psychic conditions of family members is concerned. It's either shy or depression, stress, etc.
   Economics Factors
For example, the lack of sufficients income husbands in household needs. sometimes there is too many demanding of wife in regards to meet household needs, both food and clothing or educational needs. From there, arose quarrels between husband and wife which ultimately led to domestic violence.
   Educational Factors
Can be caused by lack of knowledge of both parties how to compensate and address properties that do not match between them. Perhaps in household there is a husband who has arrogant and tend to win on its own, due to the lack of knowledge and ignorence of his wife in addressing the nature of the arrogant husband.
   The lack of Harmony and Concord
Among them that could also be a trigger for the incidence of domestic violence. Husband and wife should be able to mutually respect the opinion of each other. Husband and wife must also confidence so as not to cause excessive suspicion. The jealousy could raises the domestic violence.
   The absence sense of love
The absence sence self in love for a husband to the his wife, cause maybe their marriage took place in the presence of an arranged between them without being based on a sence of love. It can makes a man strayed from his duty as a good husband and a more responsible. Husband often being rude. 

         Therefore, in a household both husband and wife must equally guard against the conflict that could lead to violence